Cool guys rock

Last night I spoke to a couple guys at the local watering hole. One of them is married, and the other one, in a relationship. The married guy (let's call him Chris) remembered a previous conversation about my book and told his friend (Jim) about it. Chris seems to think that Jim needs to think more about his young relationship with his girl.

But when having a conversation with Jim, he seemed to be quite level-headed and understanding. He admitted to having a desire to procreate and wanting to do so with a woman who was right for him. He had had long-term relationships before, and had no trouble pinpointing potential issues. Yet this girl didn't have those issues, he claimed.

Jim is the kind of person who analyzes situations logically preventing previous negative experiences from swaying his judgment. He also has a sober perspective of his self. While he usually spends time with his girlfriend in the quiet of home, he also enjoys being out late with his male buddies. And while he tends to use logic before feelings to make decisions, he also is aware of his feelings and does not ignore them.

Jim is a well-rounded individual. He's an example of someone who naturally behaves like an AlphaDog. He knows himself well enough to know what he wants in a companion while considering the big picture and the long term.

As for Chris, he's a good friend looking out for his buddy. He's also in a happy relationship and wants to make sure his friend benefits from a compatible romance. That's also alpha.

After meeting a bunch of single guys who think knowing the "Rules of The Game" is the way to meet women, it's refreshing to meet guys who don't just live by their libido. These guys use logic and acknowledge their feelings. That's cool.

Women like men who use logic AND acknowledge their feelings. ;)